Hello one and all!

i saw that pinned posts were like a thing to like introduce oneself on here now?

Kinda weird but okie doke~ I’m open to gaining new mutuals :3

If you had to call me something I’d probably say Kat or Bek or smth. I am 23, and have a degree in web design and development. Which you would think my blog would look better but you’d be wroooong. I was on this hellsite a long time ago, slightly less long time ago, and i am back again because reddit sploded.

When it comes to my alphabet status (/joke), I am pansexual, polyamorous (engaged to my nesting partner, little experience), gray-demisexual, and graygender. I use she/they pronouns but i don’t really care, and any of this is subject to change at any point. However, I would destroy anyone not respecting other people’s orientations and identities. >:(

When it comes to this blog, I will mostly be reposting memes, text posts and lgbt+ content.

However, my fandom interests are currently are Critical Role and DND (fuck Hasbro, WOTC and the pinkertons), The Owl House, some Anime and VTubers, Bluey, Gravity Falls, Spiderverse, and a biiiit of ROTTMNT. I will probably add and subtract as I please. Unfortunately, I do not participate in the Hetalia community as much anymore (despite the fact sharing my blog still says “the real life APH PA”) but eventually nostalgia might come for me. I am still mad about my box set.

If you want to see more of something, feel free to let me know! Ask or DM.

alright now for warnings:

Minors: 13+ please, enter at your own risk. I would label my blog as DNI if i felt it was inappropriate, but I don’t think it is? I know ya’ll hear worse at school, so consider this like a big sister blog. I feel most of the subject matter I reblog is either entertaining or important. *Most importantly though Please be safe on the internet tho. I am not responsible for you, you are.*

Tagging: i barely tag things guys i am so sorry. but like enter at your own risk too if you have triggers. It’s not that i don’t care, its that I forget and am super duper lazy (but at least I am honest).

DNI: Pedophiles, TERF/Radfem/Gender criticals or exclusionists, sexists, Racists, Fascists/Qanon/conservative, homophobes, white supremecists. If you think I might be talking about you, I probably am. Fuck off Nazi Punks!!!

Other:

Cats are better than dogs. Sorry I make my own rules, no arguments taken.

Don’t be afraid to block me if its what you need to do, i won’t get offended.

Debating on having a NSFW side blog. Edit: I did make one! @chubbykats

Please feel free to interact with me or send me memes. (I promise I will try not to bite!)

Always happy to have a mutual :)

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btw one of the key components of actually being in a healthy relationship is just asking for things that you want. i keep seeing posts on this website saying 'i really want to do/receive [X] but my partner has never done it'. just ask. 'nobody exchanges love letters anymore' ask. 'i want to have my partner's hair in a locket like the victorians' just ask. 'i want to be bought flowers regularly :((' literally just ask. your partner doesn't know they're being held to these expectations and that you're unhappy unless you tell them. it's so unfair to expect your partner to read your mind. 'it's less special if you have to ask :((' grow up and stop pretending you're the lead in a romcom. when people say communication is crucial they mean it !! just ask !!

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This is one of the hardest but most crucial lessons to learn if you have previously been in an abusive relationship. If a previous partner made you feel like it wasn't safe to ask for the things you want or need, it is very easy to fall into a pattern of never articulating your desires. But that's not fair to your current partner or to yourself; in a healthy relationship, you should feel safe asking for the things you want. It takes reflection, and work, and it is sometimes hard as hell, but trust me, it's worth it.

maybe it’s just I grew up being subtly told not to ask for things but this is a difficult one for me just in general asking for things is hard

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honestly better interaction than most of the customers I had last night

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woah like tbh I think it’s pretty and cool but that shits hella dangerous! you could NOT catch me being anywhere withing eye range for fear of a huge explosion you’d see me on the phone with 911 the entire damn time

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seriemorder

they need to invent a job where they pay you to get obsessed with a subject for 3 and up to 6 months. and thats it. you dont have to show results for it or anything. they just give you money for being overlyinvolved in this one specific subject of your choosing for a while. just me and the 356 wikipedia pages and the 17 books i read. i dont remember a single word of anything. but boy was i Obsessed(tm). it will be 20k thank uuuu

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Nothing like a trip to the uncanny valley to boost your mood

wtf lmao

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Help me pay to travel home for my uncle's memorial service.

I know I said I wouldn't be online for a while, but I am posting this for help.

My Uncle Roger recently passed away, very unexpectedly. He was one of the most important people in my life, and probably one of the only members of my family who didn't completely disown me when I came out, left home, and moved out of state, and realized I was trans.

Despite me having a difficult relationship with my family, Roger and I stayed in touch over the years. Practically everyone in my family didn't attend my wedding or graduation - Roger did. He was there.

I was not able to go to the funeral/burial - much of my family said me being there would be painful for them and that my presence would cause turmoil at an already difficult time. It pains me a lot that even though Roger was there for me, I was not able to be there for him.

But I still would like to travel to see my grandmother, and a few other relatives, for a separate memorial. Travel costs will go toward a last-second holiday flight, a rental car, and (possibly) a hotel room. Any additional money will go towards my grandmother, who lost her son during an already difficult time for my Palestinian family.

أحبك خالو رجا.

Travel expenses for funeral/memorial

My Uncle Roger recently passed away, very unexpectedly. He was one of the most important people in my life, and probably one of the only mem

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Anything helps. And if you can't donate, please reblog if you are able.

I don’t usually reblog these kinds of things but this one hit my heart I love their videos and want the best for them and I’ve been having some really complicated feelings about family and it’s absolutely brave to be out I hope your uncle rests peacefully it sounds like he loved you very much and I hope things go well for you in this time make sure to take care of yourself drink lots of water signal boost